Every day we see single Christian men. There are always eligible bachelors searching for their soul mates. For every single Christian man there is a woman truly special for him and each one of us have our own preferences.
The general principles of the art of seduction still apply regardless of race, color, creed or religion — just don’t overdo it. If the rooster doesn’t want to peck, just let him be. Don’t force yourself on others and take pride in yourself. The golden rule still applies and may I quote “Do not do unto others what you don’t want others do unto you”. Love will surely come your way if you’ll just be patient. There are lots of single Christian men out there looking for the same thing. Surely, you don’t want to be like the supporting actress in the movie “Fatal Attraction”. Give yourself some respect. Otherwise, you will be vain and bitter. Show a little bit of skin and don’t be too old- fashioned, as single Christian men are human beings too with sexual urges and desires. However, wear stylish, decent, respectable clothes that would spell out your Christian upbringing and personality. Surely, you don’t want your love target to be drooling with his eyes all popped out all night long, unless you want to arouse the beast in him and turn your date into a “one night stand”. Find the right balance and let that beautiful personality shine — radiate that energy with your genuine smile. Be nice, feel good within and be sexy but at the same time respectable. Think positive and attract good thoughts. And when you go out on dates, just use a little perfume, a dab here and there to enhance that charisma within you. Don’t pour the whole bottle on you and your clothes unless you want to promote the product. Be flexible, but cautious.
Study your potential candidates, analyze them and ask yourself if this is the “real person” you’ve been looking for and not just a figment of your imagination. Is he the ideal single Christian man for me? Does he love me or does he lust for me? These are two different states of desire that women should be aware of about men in general and single Christian men are no exception. For real lasting love relationships to last, both have to exist. Lacking one would not make the relationship successful. Set a romantic mood — dinner by the candlelight,a walk in the park, walking in the rain sharing an umbrella, a casual meeting in an elevator or restaurant and many more. Be yourself and not feign affection. Be frank, straightforward but at the same time cautious on your words as you might hurt the other person. Be spontaneous like the ocean breeze or water flowing from waterfalls, refreshing, inviting, exciting. Listen to the latest news to be informed on current issues in order to have topics to discuss, get involve in social activities to make yourself visible. Learn how to flirt and unleash that power of attraction within you. It’s okay, we’re not priests and nuns, we’re social beings. We long to touch and be touched spiritually, emotionally, intellectually and physically.
Don’t fear but pray for it. Plan it and God will guide you through it. So, to all you nice and lonely ladies out there looking for love, companionship and happiness, the world is just teeming with lots of good single Christian men. You just have to identify them and meet them. Good luck!